New Year, New Ring??!
So, the holidays are over, everyone has either packed up their Christmas tree and holiday decor (or is pretending to not see it sitting there in the corner, because they know they're procrastinating!)
Just sayin'!
The holidays are not only the time of year to be merry and spend time with family and friends, but they are also "Engagement Season." Seriously, how many engagement announcements/posts have you seen on Facebook, Twitter, etc. In the past two months? The holidays have a way of helping people take stock of their lives, assess their relationships, and show their loved ones how much they care about them. I love hearing stories of friends' proposals, especially the "ring in a gift box under the Christmas tree" story. . . Not wholly original, but gets me every time!
If, you're one of the lucky ladies that was engaged over the holidays, congratulations!!! You are officially a bride!! Take a couple of weeks to bask in the glow of your ring, love, and attention from friends and family. After, you recant your love story to friends and family, the next question is guaranteed to be: "When is the wedding?"
For that question, may I offer the suggestion of the simple reply:"We are enjoying our engagement right now, but we will start planning the wedding in the coming year."
This response is polite, informative, and general enough to allow you time to plan as you please.
After you've enjoyed your newly-engaged glow, there are some major decisions that you need to talk over with your partner.
Here is a list of post-proposal decisions:
- Do you want to have an Engagement Party?
- How informal/formal do you want it?
- What is your budget for the party and other wedding related events?
- Do you want to send out an Engagement Announcement/Save-the Date?
- When do you want/able to get married?
- Consider work, familial, financial obligations
- What is your wedding budget?
- Who will be paying for this wedding?
- Where will the wedding/reception be held?
- How many people (roughly) do you anticipate inviting to the wedding?
- *Very important to discuss with your partner, because it affects all other wedding related decisions
I know, it may seem a little overwhelming at first, but as you discuss these general outlines for your wedding with your partner, you will begin to have a clearer idea of what both of you want for the big day.
Have a Lovely Day!
M.M.
Our delicious cake for the Engagement Party!!
(The Bakery took the liberty of adding flowers to my design)
(Can you spot where one of our little guests couldn't resist having a taste of the cake before the party?)